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The People in Your Life
Value Clarification
What do you value most? Love, money,Air Jordan 23XXIII Shoes, honesty,Air Jordan Flight 9, passion? Integrity, health, generosity, humor? For many people, it’s difficult to express what they value most. We get so caught up in the urgency of the moment, we don’t have a clear sense of what our core values are? When your rent is due and you’re not sure how you are going to pay it, money may seem more important to you than love. But when your career is going well, and money is not an issue, but you are alone on Valentine’s Day, love may seem much more important than money.
Rank Your List of Values
Now think about people you admire. Role models, mentors,Jordans Team Elite II, teachers, managers, parents, friends, authors, great men and women from the past. Who are they? What about them do you admire? What values do they embody at the times you admire them the most?
Paralysis by Indecision
Our lives touch many people, and what we do will have an effect―good or bad―after we are gone. What do you want your legacy to be? How do you want to be remembered?
Your life is an incredibly rich collection of experiences. By looking back at the times when you felt most successful, happiest, and most natural, you will gain an understanding of what is most important to you.
Your Legacy
But many people fall into this very trap when they are trying to make important decisions about their lives. It’s what I call paralysis by indecision. Let’s look at a powerful way to help you get clear on what’s really important in your life so you can make decisions with confidence. For those of you who already know what you want, this technique will help you make important decisions even more quickly and confidently than you do now.
Imagine you wanted to go on vacation. You had the time and the money, but you didn’t know where you wanted to go. The world is such a vast and interesting place, with so many options. Go skiing or relax on the beach? Visit the pyramids in Egypt or the pyramid in Las Vegas? Wouldn’t it be a shame if you skipped your vacation just because you couldn’t decide where to go?
When does life seem to flow, as if success is effortless? When do you feel in the zone? What are you doing at these times? What are you feeling? What values are you expressing or experiencing?
Sometimes the first traits we admire in people are superficial. He has a lot of money. She’s beautiful and popular. But if you keep don’t stop at these first answers, and you keep asking yourself these questions, you will get to the important qualities. He’s funny and smart. She’s kind and giving. Look for themes, characteristics that show up in many of the people you admire most. Other people can serve as a mirror to help us learn about ourselves.
The result of asking all of these questions will be a long list of values. This is a great start, and by itself is quite useful in helping you make decisions when you are stalled. But when you take the time to rank your values, you will develop a clarity about your life that will enable you to make decisions more quickly and confidently than you ever thought pos
When were you happiest? When were you most proud? What were you doing at these times? What were you feeling? What values were you expressing or experiencing?
So if you can’t really rely on the moment to show you what your true values are, how do you figure them out? Look to the past and the future.
Now, imagine yourself in the future, at the end of your life. You are surrounded by your children and their children, by your friends and peers, by your admirers. What do they love most about you? What do they admire about you? What have they learned from you? What values do you embody? Looking back across your whole life, what are you most proud of? What have you accomplished and what values were required for you to accomplish those things?
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