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Direct Answers - Column for the week of October 21, 2002
I am a stay-at-home mom, 24, marital to my husband, 26, as 6 years. He has a problem chatting with juvenile girls online.
I have "caught" him numerous times, and it's forever the same thing. He's sorry and says it's only a game to him, but he continues to do it. He goes with a high school procedure and knows these girls in real life. I've logged his conversations, and they are very bothering.
He likes the care,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and for some reason teen girls are preoccupied to him, never mind he's 10 years older and married with babies. Recently I read a conversation in which he told a girl the only reason he's married is because I got fertile, which is true. He says we are best friends, and finally we will "move on" when the time is right.
This was news to me. I confronted him, and he said he only said those things because he knew I was spying on him and wanted me to come forward. I don't believe that. I don't consider he knew I read his messages. I believe that is the way he feels.
He tells me often he loves me and is never mean in anyone other way. He says it's an flee for him. In a access I deem it, merely I cannot forget what he said about our marriage. If that's how he feels, why does he absence to linger?
Jewell
Jewell, while your husband said he wrote something aggressive to make you come along, it's a mini favor saying he wanted a policeman to come along so he began to speed. It doesn't prop water.
The question is what is real and what is fancy. Your husband is playing an escalating game with real people who are also young for him to be playing with. He hasn't stopped because there aren't escalating consequences.
He is casting his web wide, kicking on these girls, waiting fall butmething to happen. He is catching a become 1 of them ambition print out what he says and pass it around. Even extra threatening, sooner alternatively after he is working to detect the one he cannot resist.
Meanwhile, the young girls get a chance to try out their sexuality on an mature man. For most it will fair be train. For one of them, it is likely to be the real thing. If you don't present him with solemn reasons for stopping, that is where his behavior is possible to lead.
Your husband namely toying with the pin on a hand grenade. If you can't get him to put it down, you need to get out of the eruption zone.
Wayne & Tamara
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Why is sex so public? Why is it secondhand as a sale tool? I just don't get it. I dart up at the sight and sound of this garbage. What happened to the agreeable antique days when sex was personal, shared among two people, and never oral about in public? I miss them, and I wasn't even living then.
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Wisdom comes from understanding our own peppery buttons and loosening ourselves from self-serving messages. Just because we live in a certain period doesn't mean we can't stand individually from that time.
Instead of reacting to every information and letting people push our buttons, we need to query,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Who will gain if I deed on this message? Until we know that, we are like a willow whipped by a wind stirred by others. After we understand that, we are like the sedate oak barely pushed by even the strongest winds.
Wayne & Tamara
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This story was posted on October 21, 2002