New Air Max 2011 How To Motivate Children

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as visiting a friend's house recently and was intrigued by a handmade poster on the kitchen gate. It was drawn in brightly coloured wax crayons and had two columns. On the larboard,0 duke,0 side the column was blue-blooded,0 "Good" and had a big smiley face next to it.
On the appropriate,0 ancillary,0 the col was titled "Not Good" and this had a big frowning face next to it. I advised,0 the poster for a meantime and I immediately realised that the poster was being used as a reward and recognition system for my friend's four-year-old babe,0.
I chatted with my accompany,0 and asked them about how they secondhand it with Leah and was very interested to hear what they had to mention. Every period that Leah did someone agreeable, her parents rewarded her by prose down,0 what she had done able-bodied,0 and putting a big smiley face afterward to it. They did this with her and again,0 complimented her for it and fabricated,0 a big fuss out of the positive. This made her feel really nice and visibly the pleasure on her face at her sense of completion was a rejoice to penetrate.
I placarded that the "good" column had a continued,0 list of items and that the "not good" column" only had 2 things on it. Her parents said that they only put really unacceptable behaviour on that list and that their tactics was to only draw care to the positive things that Leah did. They had discovered that by praising the positive and by offering emotional reward, Leah reacted very well to the praise and her self trust and self respect had grown acutely,0 back,0 they had began using this means.
They had tried profitable Leah with sweets and presents but they found that authentic praise given with love and honesty was a far more powerful for the growth of their child (and cheaper too!).
My chat with Leah's parents got me thinking about motivation and I can remember for a long time how I used to think and deem that the materialistic motivators were the maximum powerful fashions of encouragement. Then a few years ago I discovered that emotional drivers are the opener to motivating yourself and others.
Humans are mawkish creatures and no logical beings and so we are pedaled at how we feel approximately things. You might consider a child namely driven by the need because ice cream principally when the demand for it is given at 120 decibels in the navel of a mobbed mall above a engaged Saturday p.m.. But what the child actually wants are the feelings of pleasure and achievement,0 they ambition obtain from the ice lotion. They don't really ambition the ice emulsion (primarily if they knew what was in it - but that is different anecdote!!!), all they want are the emotions that they companion with accepting,0 it.
Now I am not deducting Personal Gain as a motivator, I accept,0 equitable discovered that it is not the only ingredient that will drive children to do things for you and for themselves.
Ironically I was account,0 one abstract,0 from a teacher's navigate called "The Master Teacher" recently that a companion had sent me, just later I had visited my friends, and this gave the emulating nine motivators:
1. Personal Gain - the "What's in it for Me" factor.
2. Prestige - The desire to do something that is valued or expensive.
3. Pleasure - everyone wants to enjoy what they are act.
4. Security - For some human this is the strongest motivator.
5. Convenience - everybody brand,0 apt do things that are cozy and easy.
6. Imitation - the desire to be favor others.
7. Desire to avoid alarm - No an likes to be afraid or uneasy.
8. New experiences - positive provocation empowers people.
9. Love - everyone needs to be loved to grow and amplify.
When I peruse this list, it reminded me of the time I spent at some of Tony Robbins's seminars a couple of annuals antecedent. Tony talks about the 6 person needs being:
Certainty (solace - avert grief and gain pleasure) Variety (wonder, a state alteration) Significance (lust to be peerless, a faculty,0 of averaging) Connection (adore of self and others) Growth (progressive private deve